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Why Men love Older women

By Chelsea Kaplan

Striking out in the love department? It may be time to channel your inner “cougar.” Halle Berry, Diane Lane  and Demi Moore — all of whom are in their 40s and 50s — have snagged some of Hollywood’s hottest younger men in recent years, proving that when it comes to attracting someone, youth doesn’t always equate with desirability. So, what is it about older women that men can’t seem to resist? Below, dating experts weigh in on what makes these midlife stunners such man-magnets — and how you can harness some of their abilities, regardless of your age.

Mature woman with sexy legs sitting on sofa wanting sex
Sexy older woman wanting sex


Reason #1: Older women avoid putting pressure on the men they date

 Want to know the quickest way in a budding relationship to send a man running in the opposite direction? Pressure him about settling down, “putting a ring on it” or having kids — things that an over 50 woman hardly ever does with her dates. “Because she’s not at an age where her biological clock is ticking loudly or all of her friends are just getting married, the desire to settle down isn’t an older woman’s main romantic goal,” explains Jennifer Bidwell, a dating and relationships coach in Washington, D.C. “This is a huge reason why a man — especially a younger one who isn’t completely ready for all of those life-changing experiences — will be attracted to someone in her 40s or 50s,” says Bidwell.

Older woman in stocking sitting on sofa
Older woman in stocking sitting on sofa

To avoid putting an uncomfortable squeeze on the man you’re seeing, Bidwell advises adopting a couldn’t-care-less attitude about getting serious — even if it’s really your top priority: “By adopting that cougar  practice of acting nonchalant about commitment in the early stages of a relationship, you’ll allow your guy to give himself to you more freely and completely, because he won’t feel the weight of your need to find Mr. Right right now.”

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